by Steve DIY
into Mistress Xena on the net - Goth Chix.Com had pointed her
in my direction and when I checked out what she was about I
fired some questions off to her about her life style. Happy to
be interviewed here's what Mistress Xena had to say:
Globe: First off can you introduce yourself to the world of
Rock N Roll?
Yes. You may call Me Xena, Mistress Xena, Goddess Xena or Lady
Xena (and trust Me, I'm NO Princess). I was born and raised in
Chicago, IL. And I'm still living in this fucking cold city.
I'm in My 20s, 1/2 Irish and 1/2 Middle Eastern. Wierd
Combination, huh? Ahh, we're all a bunch of wierdos anyway.
Let's see...... Words that best describe Me (What Am I?):
Dominant, Sadist, Fetishist, Rubberist, EVIL, Wicked,
Seductive, Erotic, Perverted, Kinky and Witty.
Punk Globe: How did you get into the world of BDSM? At
what age did you get a feel for it?
I became experimental, starting at age 15. I was a Voyeur and
an Exhibitionist (and still am). I thank the lovely female on
My block (at the time), for teaching Me certain aspects in
BDSM. I was quite curious and already lived a boring life.
Until I met this Female. We had all sorts of fun (use your
perverted imagination). I began attending local Dungeons at
age 18, thanks to the
couple for inviting Me to join them. This couple had met Me at
a Fetish Night, in Chicago and realized that I was highly
interested in becoming more involved in the scene. The couple
had trained Me and a year later, I began Pro-Domination. I
started working as a House-Domina, with other Ladies.
Currently, I'm an Independent
Domina and loving every second of it.
Punk Globe: To me it looks a bit painful so what makes
people want to go through that?
Interesting question. What makes people do what they do? What
makes people want (or crave) pain? Some individuals enjoy
receiving a bloody whip or a heavy-duty wooden paddle to their
bare ass because in their childhood, they were beaten with
these objects. Or because they want to let go. And they want
to be free. Even because they deserve the punishment for doing
something bad in their lives, which is why most men turn to
Mistresses to give them Pain and to turn them into Pain-Sluts.
There are several answers to this question. I honestly HATE
receiving pain and couldn't pass for a masochist. Why is that?
Because I'm a Sadist and simply get off on inflicting pain.
Punk Globe: Some say what you do is obscene and
degrading so what is your reply to these people?
"Stop Being Such Cunts, and Give it a Shot". Open Up. Be
Experimental. Discover your Kinky and Naughty side. Get
Freaky. Don't be scared of Perverts. Have fun in life (ya
know, life is short).
You know what I truly despise? When Individuals categorize us
as being either 'Escorts' or 'Prostitutes'. And why is a
Dominatrix different? Because a Dominatrix doesn't spread Her
legs and get Fucked by the client, for the Money. I have
nothing against Escorts or Hookers (some look damn good in
Thigh-High Boots, though), don't get Me wrong.
Punk Globe: What sort of limits do you set yourself?
Prostitution, Exotic Dancing, Exchanging in Bodily Fluids or
Nudity (on My part) is certainly off-limits. As far as
activities, I do NOT engage in Needle Play, Play Piercing (I
despise needles, but I could get tattooed anytime... It's
wierd), Roman Showers (Vomiting on a slave) or Red Showers
(Urinating on a slave, while the Female is on Her Period).
Is there anything you haven't tried but would like to do?
I've did just about everything in the book, with My
slaves. I've never crucified a slave, but thought about REALLY
Punk Globe: How long do the photo
shoots tend to last?
Besides being a Domina, I'm also a Model. My Photo shoots can
last, from an hour to an entire weekend. It can be quite
exhausting, when I Model for an entire weekend (with either
one Photographer or several). When I DO Model for an entire
weekend, I keep Myself awake, by drinking lots of coffee. Of
course, I need the extra shots of Espresso, to really keep Me
on My feet. When Modeling throughout the weekend, I tend to
get as many sets in, as humanly possible. The hard work
definitely pays off in the future, for sure.
Punk Globe: Have you taken part in any movies and if
so could you name a few for our readers to check out?
Does being an Extra in a Movie count? haha. Na, I've never
been in a 'huge' film. I've been in Films, which are BDSM /
Fetish Oriented. I'm currently in the process of putting out a
DVD called, "Taking Charge". It's with Charger Pony and Myself
(filmed in Minneapolis, Minnesota). Most of the Movie involves
Pony Play and Human Torture. When the Movie is released, I'll
mention it on My website. So, stay tuned!
Punk Globe: You have a cool website so what kind of
hits do you get every month?
It all varies, from Month to Month. In the Month of November
2005, I received 40,000-45,000 hits.
Punk Globe: How do you feel about certain feminists
who think you're letting down other women because of the
occupation you have chosen?
Personally, I haven't received any complaints from Negative
Feminists about My line of work. I know that other Dominants
have, but not Myself. Other Women in the Chicago Land area are
inspired and intrigued in what I do. I've trained some Women,
because those Women were serious in getting into the business
and serious in being a Powerful and a Domineering person.
Punk Globe: Outside your occupation what kind of
things do you like to do?
(or simply having fun) in My Rubber Catsuits, Wearing My
Thigh-High Boots, Being Tightly Cinched in Corsets, Receiving
Massages, Foreplay, Webcam Shows, Web-Designing, Browsing the
Internet, Dancing, Singing, Listening to all Kinds of Music,
Drinking Alcohol, Watching Movies, Exercising and Traveling.
Punk Globe: If you saw me in a shopping mall after
running this interview would I be in line for a kiss?
Yes. A wet slobberish Kiss, though. ha ha!
like I'm going to have to start hanging around her local Mall:-)
Punk Globe: So sell yourselves to our
readers - Why should they visit your site?
My Members Area includes 5,000+ Images (going all the way back,
from 2001). My Members Area ALSO includes Solo Images with just
Myself, Girl / Girl Action Photos, Mistress / slave Photos,
Guest Models, Webcam Photos, Party Photos at Different
Conventions, Photos Taken During My Performances, Photos of Fan
Art, and Candid Shots. Different kinds of images are featured in
the Members Area. Goth, Bondage, Fashion, Fetish, Rubber,
Lingerie, Pin-Up, Cheesecake, Portraits, Fine-Art and of course,
Nudity. Note: In the near future, I plan on adding mini video
clips to the Members area. You must be 18+ to Join. Sorry
Children. More information on Joining My Members Area is listed
on My website:
Punk Globe: Any New Year messages for
Be safe. Drink ALOT, but don't you fucking drive. Cheers for
2006! (already, huh?) My how time flies.
Thanks to Mistress Xena for
being so honest and open. She gives some excellent replies to
the questions asked so thanks you for that. I hope this
interview opens peoples eyes and minds to the world of BDSM.
Please do check out the sites that Mistress Xena has on line.